The Ugly Truth

Just watched The Ugly Truth again and laughed almost as hard as I did in the theater. That is the dream we probably all want-- to find that love that is not ugly after all. Skeptical as I am, I still believe. Somewhere, somehow, there must be real, true love that is not just based on selfish needs. Let's hope. Check out the super sexy dance scene in my custom video player above. Wow. Makes one yearn for that kind of man who is like Gerard Butler in this scene-so much a "real" man, the kind that requires no talking, you just relate as a man and a woman and all you need to know is understood through that magical knowing that is clear in your eyes and the way your bodies move together. 

Unfortunately, a lot of magical moments made when our inhibitions are loosened by alcohol or whatever, may seem like that kind of connection, but are not the real deal, if indeed, it does exist!  Dancing seems to be the best way to experience that.  I have experienced some of those moments when dancing, where my partner leads so well that you easily glide on air as one on the dance floor, (or in bed), or when you and someone else are involved in completing some task that does not involve talking.  Something happens when we switch to that level of communication where speech is not needed.  It must be some special frequency in our brains that has a surreal, magical feel where time stands still.  No wonder we feel a strong connection when we experience that with someone.  It is amazing how you just know what each of you is feeling during one of those moments.  It is very appealing and I suspect it could be very nice to live in a world where the dance of romance did not involve any speech!

Probably goes back to that idea of wanting a "take charge" man, or a "strong" man, a man who will lead.  It is so appealing to imagine a man like that, but, of course, we would want him to be that way while respecting us!.  Good luck on that one!